How to Deal with my MAN?

     Let me begin with 'Good morning'. I'm not really sure how to start this article "how to deal with my man", but as I wake up this morning, my mind kept on throwing ideas in my head and I can't stop writing it.

     In our generation, the world is promoting this line "WOMEN RULES". You can see it in the television, newspaper, internet, every promotional ads, its even being practiced already anywhere, at home, at school, office, government or any institution --- women are now dominating the world.

     Truth is a woman might be strong outside but the inner depth is still weak. Well, this is not about us, women... this article is about men! How to handle your man despite of your strong personality. I have here just 2 major, major pointers, just 2 pointers that you have to keep in mind that might help you reaching your goal of handling your man to a better and stronger relationship. These practices helped millions of women globally already. But before anything else I need you to MEMORIZE these two pointers by heart, and ofcourse APPLY IT (push yourself!) until these become your character. It may take days, weeks, months or even years.Trust me, it's worth your effort.

ALWAYS MAKE YOUR MAN FEEL:

Practice # 1: He's the BOSS

     We have to realize women / girls that "PRIDE" is very important, super duper mega important to our men. For us women, it's our 'reputation' that matters. Now, you have to make your man feel and know that he's "THE BOSS", that you can't move without his help. That you're helpless without him when he's around  (even if you can really do things). Let him make the decisions or not really the whole decision but ask for his opinion all the time, making him feel his idea matters to you. In that way, you're helping him gain his confidence and pride, making him realize that "Hey, I have to be strong for my girl, she needs me". Also remember, 'Two are better than one!" (Ecclesiastes 4:9). There's a tablet pc that contains eBook or installed with bible verses that might help explain this section, bring it anywhere to be reminded.

Keep in mind: If your man feels that he's no longer needed by you and that you  know everything, tendency is, he might leave you on your own, since he's no longer important and can't reach you anymore, or worst, he'll look for another woman / girl who will make him feel "the HERO".



Practice # 2: He's the BEST

Since pride is important to your man, being "THE   BEST" is also part of that pride. He wants YOUR PRAISES ALL THE TIME. He wants your smile and yes, he wants you to be always PROUD of him in all aspect: physical appearance, his job, his gifts, his accomplishments, his family, etc. He wants your appreciation every minute. 

Now, your job is to make him feel and show him that he's really really good. You have to tell him out loud, tell him he's handsome, you like his eyes, you like his smile, you appreciate his gifts and efforts, you're proud of his job, etc. So many things to appreciate, focus on his POSITIVE attributes rather than the negative ones.

Below is a pair of DO's and DONT's that might help you understand this "HE's the BEST" section. With the donts honestly I, myself sometimes forget these.. so please help yourselves.. The Don't part often causes our men to lose their pride and confidence.. in the end we might lose them:

DON'T: Avoid using the word YOU negatively when you're upset with him when he failed to do something, like blaming him because of what happened. Example: "YOU are so lazy!! Look for a job" or "YOU are late again, YOU're so slow!"----> this 'you' word when used negatively will really degrade your man's pride.

DO: Encourage him by highlighting or praising his positive attributes. Example: "Hon, you're GOOD in dealing with different kinds of people, I'm sure you'll succeed in sales" this line  shows "HE'S the BEST" , or "Hon, I was so afraid here in the street while waiting for you" ----> with this line you're showing him "HE's the BOSS" you need him all the time and he's your hero, so he'll keep in mind that you need him to be early.

There are many testimonies that prove the effectiveness of these 2 major practices on 'How to handle your man", google it!... I, myself improved my relationship not just with my man but with my brothers, my dad and other friend guys. You might say, you're still young Ladyh to say these are effective, YES, that's true, but I'm enjoying the results right now and striving hard to improve more and building these 2 practices as my character with God's help. There's a place in Las Pinas that helped me a lot when it comes to this 'relationship building' article --- OJBM, Uniwide Las Pinas Branch, Philippines.

Remember, "There's always a woman behind a man's success".

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